Anonymous said: I just miss this guy I've made out with a couple times and he almost took my virginity and I don't know how to get over him. And he's a senior and I'm a freshman:(
Listen, kiddo. You made out with him a few times. Sounds like a typical case of “im-a-senior-who-can-get-with-anyone-i-want-so-im-gonna-fool-around-with-a-hot-freshman-girl-cause-i-can”. Don’t miss this person anymore. Don’t waste your time on this person anymore.
Also, don’t let someone like this “almost” take your virginity… especially after you’ve only “made out a couple times”.
Chin up, buttercup.
Lately I’ve been getting a lot of messages about how you guy have had your first make out/ hookup while being “totally drunk” and “so stoned”. Please don’t make those mistakes anymore. Believe me, I’ve made those mistakes and have felt shitty about doing so after the fact. It’s sloppy, and gross, and not nearly as sexy as the movies make the “party hook up scene” appear. Yes a drunk kiss here and there is fine, especially when the hook up is with someone you have a real connection with (I’ve been with my boyfriend for a while now and the drunk/stoned hookups with each other are a fucking blast), but having sloppy “shit faced” hookups at parties is not a good idea. Please try to avoid that, and please stay safe.
Love you all